I am constantly looking for images of medium to deep brown skinned women to not necessarily counter the dominant images of lighter skinned celebrities, but adequately represent ALL the women on the wide spectrum of beautiful women regardless of race or ethnicity. Along with kelly rowland, cynthia bailey, and others, actress, rutina wesley is...
Why You Are Still Single: The Law of Averages Why are you still single? That’s the big question. I am going to attempt to answer this question for you and I’m not going to lie to you, bullshit you, or pull any punches with you. This is might hurt a little. (I suggest you...
Don’t!!! …better yet, why don’t you just go ahead and stick your head in a meat grinder? Cause in the end, that’s exactly what it’ll feel like. (this is a cute video, but don’t you even think about doing this in real life) (whoever asks the other person out does the heavy lifting and...
I’ve said it before. I’ve never lived in a body that wasn’t small or “normal” by society’s standards. And I don’t credit willpower or a workout regimen, I credit good genes. In other words, I got lucky and I’m aware of that. However, I do know what it means to not be considered “normal”...
Hello lovelies! It’s Friday and Auntie Tootie has a surprise for you! Yay! It’s football season! No, that’s not the gift (Auntie Tootie hates football!). But you’re getting warmer…warmer… Today, Auntie Tootie has come bearing the gift of one-more-thing-you-don’t-need-to-waste-your-time-obsessing-over -– knowledge of and interest in football. It’s not football season quite yet, but with...
Here’s another piece on the subject of attractiveness—weight. As we’ve already discussed, if you’re single and you prefer to be dating but you find that you have a hard time meeting guys or getting guys to notice you or getting the kind of guys that you like to notice you, more than likely, this...
Ever wondered how long it takes for a man to figure out if he likes a woman? Well, this guy, and the girls at “The View” can tell you.
Is Tyra Banks a hypocrite? I don’t know about that, but i know for a fact that she had a lobotomy 40 years ago. Ok, let me stop before i get sued for all sorts of libel and slander. Tyra is not 40 years old. lol. I am obviously unimpressed with Tyra. Personally, I...
Before You Date Pt. III(a):: How to Handle a Man “It’s a man’s job to initiate a relationship and a woman’s job to maintain it.” –fsg Since this blog is primarily directed toward single folks (women in particular), I talk a lot about attraction because it’s the initial obstacle to dating and, whether one...
The Power of Positive Thinking…is not real! (Don’t believe me? Prove me wrong.) If you haven’t noticed by now, a major theme of this blog is this: “It’s not you! You’re not bad/crazy/lazy/ugly/stupid/mean/weird/etc.” If you’re single, it’s not because you are a “bad person,” or “hate men,” or have “negative thoughts,” or “give...
Let me say this up front, I do not like having this conversation in mixed company. It’s just too difficult to speak about it candidly in mixed company without upsetting someone. Even in homogenous circles, anything you say on the subject will either hurt or offend someone, that’s just the nature of any conversation...
Why You Are Still Single, The Law of Averages Why are you still single? That’s the big question. I am going to attempt to answer this question for you and I’m not going to lie to you, bullshit you, or pull any punches with you. This is might hurt a little. (I suggest you...
Yesterday, the homie YH posted a link to the facebook fanpage about the pros and cons of straight and natural hair. I think it was like Natural v. Relaxed Hair, or something like that. Anyhow, I read it on my blackberry because I was out and about. At one point, i thought, since i...
